All tied up

Comfy and restraining. Photo by Alice Hebb

How to take part in safe and sexy bondage The desire to be restrained has a long history. Bondage, as an aesthetic and sexual activity, was on the rise in […]

Talking about Trans

Breaking barriers and getting to know trans individuals Author’s note: When I use the term “trans”, I mean anyone identifying with a term starting in trans, such as transsexual, transgender, […]

Consent and radical vulnerability

Graphic thanks to Jonathan Rotsztain

No, yes, hell yes and everything in between   We’ve all been notified, one way or another, that individuals are supposed to consent to sex. In theory, we all agree. […]

What I wish I’d known

Sexy morning after.

Your dose of our sexy sex column     I’ve been avoiding this column for the last two weeks, not because I don’t love writing about sex, but because I […]